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Aah ok
5:05 PM
Thank you
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I had a tulpa That dissapeared, how do I get him back?
Ett || Et3rniti 11/27/2022 5:05 PM
I'm no expert but I would imagine you would just do the same as you would when attempting to create a new tulpa– talk to him
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Aah as I have tried
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i've found that being fully awake helps.
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Thank you for the help though
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Ett || Et3rniti 11/27/2022 5:07 PM
depending on the length of dormancy/disappearance, it may take a while
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just with everything
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Ett || Et3rniti 11/27/2022 5:07 PM
true
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Yeah
5:07 PM
Ight imma go eat breakfast
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Tadty
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I bacj
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Ett || Et3rniti
depending on the length of dormancy/disappearance, it may take a while
So just keep trying?
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Ett || Et3rniti 11/27/2022 9:40 PM
yes
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Ett || Et3rniti
and they never asked...
if you're referring to me, I dont live with my tulpas so I'll ask tomorrow
10:17 PM
nvm
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Ok
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@Deleted User is curious about imposition and how far it can be taken. @Breloomancer if it's not a bother, maybe you can share some of your experiences?
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sure. i can get into more specific stuff if you like, but in general, there really aren't a lot of things that you can't do with your experience of your senses once you're good enough. i haven't been able to keep things stable enough to be able to, for example, play a game of imposed chess without any of the pieces disappearing or ending up in the wrong place, but asmask claims to be able to do it, and i'm sure that if i put in more practice i would eventually be able to pull it off. i have difficulty imposing the sensations of exhaustion or hunger, though i never really tried to learn that in the first place. i haven't really found any hard limits on imposition. i could replace my entire sensory experience with a fully imposed one, or even one where i interacted with my senses in different ways, if i desired. although i'm not perfect at imposition all sensations that wouldn't normally be possible with the current sensory organs i possess
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Breloomancer
sure. i can get into more specific stuff if you like, but in general, there really aren't a lot of things that you can't do with your experience of your senses once you're good enough. i haven't been able to keep things stable enough to be able to, for example, play a game of imposed chess without any of the pieces disappearing or ending up in the wrong place, but asmask claims to be able to do it, and i'm sure that if i put in more practice i would eventually be able to pull it off. i have difficulty imposing the sensations of exhaustion or hunger, though i never really tried to learn that in the first place. i haven't really found any hard limits on imposition. i could replace my entire sensory experience with a fully imposed one, or even one where i interacted with my senses in different ways, if i desired. although i'm not perfect at imposition all sensations that wouldn't normally be possible with the current sensory organs i possess
thx alot!
8:44 PM
i hope i can somehow get into imposition
8:48 PM
i want to realn about imposition
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its been a few months and responses are still very simple or a repeated sticky thought and they have to be prompted... sigh
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it's the same "how are you?" "i'm good" "i'm good too" with nothing really complex or beyond that
11:52 PM
they just told me not to complain, but i'm still sorta fed up that i've been forcing for this long with no new results
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_Dan
they just told me not to complain, but i'm still sorta fed up that i've been forcing for this long with no new results
I don’t know ,but we’ve been using the parroting method for 7 months now and i had some issues with it because I couldn’t tell the difference between my answer and his, they told me to use this method a little less by the time to give him a chance to speak, and it’s actually working , now when he says anything i can feel that it is actually him and some times i can hear a different voice for like just a second, but I feel like it’s a big progress for us.
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Hey guys
11:32 AM
When talking to a tulpa, does it disconnect after a while of inactivity?
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i'm not sure i understand your terms. i am aware that a younger tulpa can grow tired and stop talking, though. (actually, any tulpa, younger ones are more susceptible though afaik) (edited)
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_Dan
its been a few months and responses are still very simple or a repeated sticky thought and they have to be prompted... sigh
Ett || Et3rniti 11/29/2022 12:25 PM
have you tried doing or reading something and asking for their opinions on it? that's a bit more complex and forces a more complex answer
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hello. I've gotten kind of lazy with my tulpamancing a month ago and I want to start again. does anyone want to buddy up? so we can encourage each other, talk about our tulpas, give each other tips and such. would really appreciate it. just dm me 🙂
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Luminesce: Decent amount of #tulpa-discussion happened in #general-discussion here: https://discord.com/channels/431579755037589505/821860262532481035/1054412425132249179 (edited)
3:35 PM
(This is the channel for on-topic tulpa discussion to be clear, general-discussion is for unrelated-to-tulpamancy discussion of anything else) (edited)
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A long kiss goodnight 12/19/2022 5:04 PM
Heh, I was catching up on the discussion and since it became off-topic I am moving here
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Reisen
Luminesce: Decent amount of #tulpa-discussion happened in #general-discussion here: https://discord.com/channels/431579755037589505/821860262532481035/1054412425132249179 (edited)
A long kiss goodnight 12/19/2022 5:07 PM
As well as because a lot of the time, a tulpa that's existed for a while never reaches a point where they can't be brought back by forcing again
I feel conflicted about this. Could we un-dissipate Spirit or Jasper? Probably. However, when they dissipated themselves, both were incredibly weak. Jasper actually used to be more active before things took a turn for the worse. We strongly suspect the desire to dissipate can weaken a headmate. If we tried to revive either of them, we would have miserable tulpas who don't know who they are and don't want to find out. They would resist forcing, hence why they chose dissipation in the first place
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5:09 PM
Let the dead rest. It was painful when both of them decided to dissipate, we didn't want them to go. To bring them back would be incredibly disrespectful because they decided they don't want to come back.
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Luminesce: That has nothing to do with "Can't", though (edited)
5:11 PM
The whole subject is just mean or worse
5:11 PM
I was just defining bounds for better understanding
5:12 PM
(Obviously I said way more than just what you quoted, including about weakness and how eventually you may just be creating a new tulpa that you and they both might think of as the original, but is probably different than)
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A long kiss goodnight 12/19/2022 5:14 PM
Oh, I did forget to mention the case where a developed enough tulpa who wants to live is part of the equation. I'm honestly not sure how likely this scenario is, it's hard to want to exist if you're not wanted. That being said, if your developed enough headmate protests, dissipation won't work. If your tulpa is really developed though, you're better off considering integration instead of dissipation. At a certain point, just dissipating a tulpa may translate to natural integration anyway. If it doesn't, you're losing out a lot
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It's all preference and nuance
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Reisen
(Obviously I said way more than just what you quoted, including about weakness and how eventually you may just be creating a new tulpa that you and they both might think of as the original, but is probably different than)
A long kiss goodnight 12/19/2022 5:15 PM
I missed that part, I'll admit I didn't read the entire discussion. I'm being lazy today
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Luminesce: Most people who dissipate a tulpa just want to be done with tulpamancy altogether, and aren't part of an otherwise continuing-to-exist-healthily system like you guys (edited)
5:15 PM
(And a side note, a lot of those people end up coming back to tulpamancy years later, which is why I thought the subject was worth discussing)
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A long kiss goodnight 12/19/2022 5:16 PM
I see
9:11 AM
I found this, I'm not sure if it is relevant to anything though
9:13 AM
It has info about how tulpamancy had made their current disorders better, including asd, adhd/add, ocd and social anxiety.
9:13 AM
Like actual research with people
9:14 AM
It has its limitations but I feel like its one of the most reliable pieces of info out there right now but then again I haven't fully read through it, and this is one of the first pieces of info I've found yet
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<Mylo> | mod picky with mylo BOT 12/20/2022 3:01 PM
hell yeah I help my host with her anxieties a lot
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A long kiss goodnight 12/20/2022 7:12 PM
I remember reading this before. I don't remember if this paper had anything bad about it?
7:13 PM
I know some of Dr. Veissière's work was ruined by Jade/Aury, I don't remember if this paper was included in that
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i'm hoping he ended up just not using their contributions
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A long kiss goodnight 12/21/2022 1:52 AM
I don't know. I do know that Jade/Aury won't have enough of an impact (if any) on the upcoming Stanford study
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Did anyone have any success with active forcing? I mainly just spend 1 hour per day with my tulpa and was wondering if this approach is wrong.
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Luminesce: Pretty much everyone has had success actively forcing lol, yes (edited)
7:05 AM
That's literally defined as "actively focusing on the activities that develop your tulpa"
7:06 AM
Passive forcing is activities like talking at your tulpa without focusing on them, or imposing them around you while you go about your day, or other things that technically involve your tulpa but don't have much focus to them and so are easier but only supplementary to their development
7:06 AM
And so of course though, "active forcing" can mean many different things, so if you think what you're doing isn't working, you'll need to be more specific
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Reisen
And so of course though, "active forcing" can mean many different things, so if you think what you're doing isn't working, you'll need to be more specific
Well I mainly just talk to my tulpa when I'm beginning to sleep, which takes an half hour to one hour. Mainly been trying to develop a voice for her, but it's been hard.
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Make sure you're anticipating responses when talking to her, and that you're not too tired to really focus
7:40 AM
The expectation for your tulpa to respond is a huge part of what constitutes "active forcing"
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Reisen
The expectation for your tulpa to respond is a huge part of what constitutes "active forcing"
I see. I haven't let her speak that much, kinda talked for her myself, but I suppose I should let her talk as well.
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Well of course, your tulpa needs vocality practice somehow
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Ik it's an old conversation, but how to let the tulpa talk?
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<Mylo> | mod picky with mylo BOT 12/24/2022 8:51 PM
like on here or
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I mean in the mind ig
8:54 PM
Parroting isnt all evil and shit like people try to say either
8:56 PM
Yes or no questions are good once youve been doing it for a bit. Don't expect an 'alien' voice, they will most likely sound like you. Sometimes they will speak with just the concept of a word rather than a clear defined word. Which is normal and a step towards vocality
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Rusty
Yes or no questions are good once youve been doing it for a bit. Don't expect an 'alien' voice, they will most likely sound like you. Sometimes they will speak with just the concept of a word rather than a clear defined word. Which is normal and a step towards vocality
You mean like a "feeling" of a answer?
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Luminesce: Talk to your tulpa and anticipate getting responses, and understand that they often will not instantly sound like a fully developed separate person but may instead feel like thoughts similar to your own (edited)
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Makikikikiki
Ik it's an old conversation, but how to let the tulpa talk?
KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧/jk 12/24/2022 9:03 PM
Pendulum method is a good start, it has 100% rate of success within minutes so far with everyone that tried it https://discord.com/channels/431579755037589505/431895537978048535/796424910867791872
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That separation happens as you develop your tulpa, and eventually their thoughts/speaking will be unmistakably different from yours or other systemmates'
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KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧/jk
Pendulum method is a good start, it has 100% rate of success within minutes so far with everyone that tried it https://discord.com/channels/431579755037589505/431895537978048535/796424910867791872
This unfortunately I can't try cuz I'm VI
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KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧/jk 12/24/2022 9:06 PM
VI?
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But thanks to you all! Will try to do it more
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KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧/jk
VI?
Visually impaired
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KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧/jk 12/24/2022 9:07 PM
That's fine, the pendulum moves strong enough to feel the movement with the hand, you don't need to see it
9:07 PM
You can do it with closed eyes even
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Really? None of my sysmates were able to move the body or something
9:08 PM
One was able to stop the body's fingers tho
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KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧/jk 12/24/2022 9:09 PM
The pendulum method is not about your headmate moving the body, but about you getting the feel of the response coming from something alien to you, which you can choose to assign to your tulpa
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You will be surprised if you try it
9:11 PM
If you have a piece of thread and a weight you can make a simple pendulum in a minute, and you will get results very quickly
9:11 PM
Reading guides or opinions of other people is much less effective than actually doing a practical exercise to get the feel
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Yeah, I guess you are right lol
9:13 PM
Thanks for the advice, I'll try it ❤️
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KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧/jk 12/24/2022 9:15 PM
Good luck!
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Really? None of my sysmates were able to move the body or something
@Makikikikiki - jump You already have systemmates, can they talk? I'm a bit confused
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Yuka
Really? None of my sysmates were able to move the body or something
@Makikikikiki - jump You already have systemmates, can they talk? I'm a bit confused
I have acidental tulpas and sysmates who came from trauma None of them can really talk But sometimes I can feel what they are trying to express
11:07 PM
In an abstract way But it makes communication quite hard (edited)
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KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧/jk 12/24/2022 11:07 PM
How did you find out they are there?
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When someone is trying to be noticed, my brain can't stop thinking about them. Then, when one fronts, I start to act, feel, talk and identify as them (edited)
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KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧/jk 12/24/2022 11:10 PM
The way you describe it makes me think they are your identities, not tulpas
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We are a monoconcious system, so it's hard to separate us from each other
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